Selected Product: | The Peacemaker: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Personal Conflict Paperback Edition: 3 Author: Ken Sande Publisher: Baker Books Release Date: 2004-01-01 ISBN-10: 0801064856 ISBN-13: 9780801064852 List Price: $16.99 Average Customer Rating: | | War of Words: Getting to the Heart of Your Communication Struggles (Resources for Changing Lives) ISBN-10: 0875526047 ISBN-13: 9780875526041 List Price:$14.99 Peacemaking Pastor, The: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Church Conflict ISBN-10: 0801065895 ISBN-13: 9780801065897 List Price:$15.99 Peacemaking for Families (Focus on the Family) ISBN-10: 1589970063 ISBN-13: 9781589970069 List Price:$12.99 Peacefakers, Peacebreakers, and Peacemakers: Member Book ISBN-10: 0929292952 ISBN-13: 9780929292953 List Price:$7.95 Firestorm: Preventing and Overcoming Church Conflicts ISBN-10: 0801090911 ISBN-13: 9780801090912 List Price:$18.99 |
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The first three chapters of the book are a challenge to glorify God through relationships, looking at relational conflict as a opportunity to testify to God's grace in your life. The key phrase from these chapters is, "Every time you encounter a conflict, you show what you really think of God." (p. 33).
The next three chapters explore the motivations and unmet needs which often lead to conflict. These chapters encourage the reader to examine himself or herself and his or her role in a given conflict. The best part of this section to me was the "Seven A's of Confession" which outline carefully a God-honoring way toward asking forgiveness of another.
Chapters 7 through 9 explore how we can help restore others who have sinned against us. These chapters are a call to honesty, grace and humility. The reader is guided toward an approach that emphasizes working hard to understand others so that all issues can be dealt with in an honest and complete way.
The last three chapters put the principles of the first nine chapters into practice through looking carefully at how to resolve conflict for the benefit of all. Practical examples are scattered throughout the book but have a special place in this last section as we see how the biblical principles of peacemaking work in real life situations.
If Christians (myself included) took up the principles outlined in this book, the emotional health and spiritual vitality of the church would increase dramatically. But the road of discipleship is hard. It is not for those who are impatient with slow progress.
A great book. | Life-changing! | Customer Rating: | | The principles in The Peacemaker are life-changing, biblical and even, dare I say, counter-cultural in their approach to conflict resolution. I read the companion book, Peacemaking Women, last year and it changed my life and my marriage. My husband noticed the change in my responses when we had a conflict and now he is leading a class on The Peacemaker at our church! Every week, people approach him and share their own Peacemaking stories. The approach is not complicated, but profound and centered in the gospel. It uncovers the underlying causes of conflict and suggests principles of conflict resolution in which everyone wins and God is glorified. I recommend the study of this book in every church or parachurch, especially to those in leadership roles. Pastors are trained in preaching and teaching, but often untrained in one of the most common and destructive occurances in the church--conflict. Most church members are peace-loving, but have no idea how to become what Jesus mentions in the beatitude that says, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall inherit the earth." The book explains the difference between "peace-fakers", peace-breakers" and peacemakers in our response to conflict. | Great book, great reference | Customer Rating: | This book is very helpful to read over when you are not in a conflict and I can only guess how much more you could get out of it if you were in a conflict. This will help you with everything from small conflicts that should be overlooked to something that has torn a family apart.
Ken Sande uses many applicable Bible verses and a well written summary with questions at the end to make this book a great reference for any conflict. If one carefully reads through this book I don't know how they would be able to continue on in conflict with anyone.
I would recommend this book to anyone and I think that the world would be in a much better place with a mentality that the Peacemaker instills. If you are hesitant at all about the book you can download the first chapter and read it for yourself on their website www.peacemaker.net | Peacemakers | Customer Rating: | Our church has been doing this study on being a Peacemaker. So far it has been a very good study.
| it was good but... | Customer Rating: | | great info but not what I was looking for. I needed info for my family and this is more for large groups like churches and not families. |
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